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Madame de Lambert Quotes

Anne-Therese de Marguenat de Courcelles, the Marquise de Lambert, was a French moralist, salonniere, and philosopher of the early Enlightenment, whose Paris salon, held weekly for nearly thirty years in the Hotel de Nevers, was one of the most important centers of intellectual exchange in the early eighteenth century. Her Advice from a Mother to Her Daughter and Reflections on Women defended a serious moral and intellectual education for women in the courtly tradition of the seventeenth-century moralists, while her New Reflections on Women and Treatise on Friendship offered original contributions to early-modern French philosophy of friendship, virtue, and the moral life of the educated. The quotes below are attributed to Madame de Lambert, organized by topic.

Madame de Lambert on Knowledge

  • Attributed to Madame de Lambert:

    “The polished manners of women conceal more philosophy than the books of men.”

  • Attributed to Madame de Lambert:

    “A young woman should be educated as carefully as a young prince, for she will rule the household if not the state.”

  • Attributed to Madame de Lambert:

    “It is by reading that we converse with what is best in those whom we cannot meet.”

Madame de Lambert on Love

  • Attributed to Madame de Lambert:

    “Friendship is the highest school of the moral life.”

Madame de Lambert on Mind

  • Attributed to Madame de Lambert:

    “Self-knowledge is the first work of any moral life worthy of the name.”